10 Rules of HUMAN RELATIONS
1. SPEAK to People : There is nothing so nice as a CHEERFUL WORD of GREETING.
2. SMILE at People : It takes 72 muscles to frown but only 14 to SMILE.
3. Call people by NAME : The sweetest music to anyone's ears is the sound of his own NAME.
4. Be FRIENDLY and HELPFUL : If you would have friends, Be a FRIEND.
5. Be CORDIAL : Speak and act a if everything you do is a GENUINE PLEASURE
6. Be GENUINELY INTRESTED in People : You can like almost anyone if u TRY.
7.Be GENEROUS :Be GENEROUS with PRAISE but CAUTIOUS with CRITICISM
8. Be CONSIDERATE :Be considerate with feelings of others. There are usually 3 sides to a controversy-yours, other person's & the right side.
9. Be ALERT : Be ALERT to give SERVICE.
10. Add to this GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR : A Good Sense of Humor works WONDERS. But remember HUMOR is GUD HUMILIATION is not.
Monday, July 27, 2009
HappiNess comes from within..
Happiness comes from within...
This is what everyone used to say when i grew up. But i being a different species didn't really accept it. I always learnt from my experiences n so had the same attitude for this suggestion.. Though i always kept wondering why people said so...
Finally i realised that true happiness is exactly what comes from within n not externally generated. We may be affected by external stuff like friends, awards, praises etc..Material world suceeds only in bringing smile.
It is your peace of mind and being content with what u have that generates this feeling. though it is human tendancy to want more, but we must also remember evrything has its own time..if it doesn happen,may be this is not the right time or may be we deserve something better or this actually better than what we wanted....
Helping others n doing ome good deeds too help us gain contentment.No matter what the o/p is,try not to expect from others.. it will always satisfy us.
Once we realise this, Happines will never leave us..
it will always accompany us n help us to spread it.. as its infectious..
It took me 20 long years to understand the functioning of happiness n our role in making ourselves happy.. But i am happy i still have life to live and better late than not. :)
This is what everyone used to say when i grew up. But i being a different species didn't really accept it. I always learnt from my experiences n so had the same attitude for this suggestion.. Though i always kept wondering why people said so...
Finally i realised that true happiness is exactly what comes from within n not externally generated. We may be affected by external stuff like friends, awards, praises etc..Material world suceeds only in bringing smile.
It is your peace of mind and being content with what u have that generates this feeling. though it is human tendancy to want more, but we must also remember evrything has its own time..if it doesn happen,may be this is not the right time or may be we deserve something better or this actually better than what we wanted....
Helping others n doing ome good deeds too help us gain contentment.No matter what the o/p is,try not to expect from others.. it will always satisfy us.
Once we realise this, Happines will never leave us..
it will always accompany us n help us to spread it.. as its infectious..
It took me 20 long years to understand the functioning of happiness n our role in making ourselves happy.. But i am happy i still have life to live and better late than not. :)
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